Moving Forward #ChennaiDiaries

So finally after waiting for 7 months i got my joining and now its time to enjoy the next phase of my life. I still remember the day I got my date intimation mail. It was 31st December 2015 and i was busy taking my tuition classes as usual when at around 1:30 my phone buzzed. I was so used to these unwanted message tones about marketing mails and a lot of things that I didn’t even checked my phone in those days.

I was delighted when I found that the mail was from the company in which I have been placed.And i shouted at the top of my voice when i read the subject line Date intimation mail.I was delighted and felt on the top of the world.Hearing my voice my parents came and asked about the whole thing and congratulated me. Then they asked “Kahan Jana hai ??”(Where you have to join).  I was so much busy that i even didn’t checked the joining location.

As soon as I opened my mail and read that I have to go to Chennai I was equally disappointed. The happiness, enthusiasm and joy all went away and I felt a bit sad and annoyed. When you are from north and you have to go to South India specifically Chennai then people around you specifically your parents will become so tensed as if you are sent to a Indo Pak War front.

I was tensed but kept myself calm and answered every query which my parents asked so that they are assured that I will be happy staying in Chennai. I logged in to Facebook to check how many people are joining with me so that I can get help from them and plan my journey nicely to Chennai.

But after scrolling and reading each and every Facebook post that appeared on my Laptop i was shocked that only two of my friends would be joining the company with me on the same day.I called my sister the same instance and told everything to her. She is such a charm that after chatting with her i was feeling so relaxed that i forgot everything regarding Chennai and focused myself to first plan my journey as a new life and a new city welcomes me with open hands.

The next two days when so fast that i didn’t even realized when time passed. Tension and fear has already started creeping in my mind the moment i read my date intimation mail. I had never stayed alone before and this will be the first time i have to stay  away from my parents it was haunting me like anything.I used to sleep just for 4 hours and  used to stay awake the whole night lost in those thoughts.

The next morning my neighbor Honey came to my house. It was his regular habit to wake me up in the morning and greet Good morning ! He came and hugged me unaware of the fact that I will not be there to meet him after few days. I love the innocence of kids, how they are so tender,cute and how there touch acts as a wonderful medicine to calm every cyclone in your mind that is making your uncomfortable and sad.

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Honey my neighbour

I went for shopping in the evening so as to buy the necessary things i will need in Chennai as it will take time to adapt to a new environment and a new city. I noticed a sudden change in my mom’s behavior as she hasn’t scolded me since last two days. It was her regular habit but now she was pampering me with lots of love and care.

We went to Bhopal Utsav Mela for shopping and after shopping for more than 3 hours we decided to come back home. As soon as i started walking back to the parking lot my mom called me and said ‘Wait !! we should eat something “. We went to food zone and sat down to eat Aloo Paratha (My Favourite 🙂 ) as my parents knew this thing and they want to make me happy so they  joined me as well. We sat there for quite a long time revised each and every moment of my school and college life.

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Its time to celebrate !!

Happiness is something that cannot be defined , can’t be created , even can’t be destroyed and it cannot be transformed as well. So why don’t we share happiness ?? Sharing amplifies the overall effect of it and is the only way by which we can pass on this amazing thing created by god to other and can make the life of people around you more beautiful and joyful.

As I write this post celebration have just started in my neighbour’s house because it’s the birthday of one of the kid living in that house. It can be easily seen from my room’s window how happy people are because there faces are twinkling with happiness.Its midnight and as the calmness of the night is increasing a deep sense of satisfaction is increasing in my mind.

So what is main reason of this satisfaction?? Why we feel happy when we also celebrate with lots of people all around ?? Is there anything special in celebrating with people ?? What is the difference or does it really matters at all ??
When you celebrate any occasion with a group or with anyone else.You share your happiness with the person or a group of person that time, in return that person also amplifies your happiness by adding his share of happiness with your share and transfers it to others and others follow the same thing and cycle goes on .

Happiness is related to positive energy. When there is a lot of negativity all around in the world we need a lot of positive energy that helps to rejuvenate our body and mind to perform better in our life. Happiness provides that positive energy and that is why it is often related to better living.

It really matters when you celebrate with others because the more you share your happiness the more it will be ‘Amplified’. And there is nothing wrong to be happy and to think how we can perform better in life.

So the next time when you have to celebrate a special occasion or you have to go to a party,gathering or anywhere else don’t hesitate because there is nothing wrong to share your happiness with lots of people whom you wish can also enjoy and celebrate and also don’t even hesitate to be part of someone’s celebration because by being the part of it you will feel happier and memories that can be cherished will be created.

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Few wishes left uncomplete

So the timetable for the final semester has arrived and its time to start preparing for the examination.In the last semester nobody wishes to do anything whether it’s the sessional files,assignments and any other online or offline work. Its something like that we want to cherish every moment of our life and the last eight semesters we studied and enjoyed with our friends.

But every time i don’t know its matter of coincidence or anything else a very important work creeps in and i am out of the city left unanswered to my bunch of questions regarding why i can’t enjoy ?? I just wanna enjoy with my friends my last days of college but nonetheless work or the circumstances don’t allow me do so.

Whether it was the last month of my school life or now as few days of my college life are left i am out of the city. I really miss my school and every person related to my school life.My school its like a lifeline for me because whenever i am sad or super happy i really remember my school and every memory related to my school sends a tinge of energy and happiness to my spine and turns out the emotional turmoil in me….believe me its just wonderful 😀

Now as few days of my college life are left and i wanna enjoy every bit of it. College has taught a lot to me and has provided me a lot of inner strength to cope up various ups and downs in my life and a lot of memories are also related to it. Its a wonderful thing  when time and various circumstances teach u how to live up your life. Time and various circumstances are the best teachers and according to me everything around you teach something whether its moral values or anything else.

But as few wishes are left incomplete there is some small hollow space in my mind. From my school days i had a wish to receive official farewell from the authorities of my academic institutions like my college or school but things didn’t turn up and our batch was unable to receive the what so called official farewell and my wish was not fulfilled. We guys organized post farewell party in my school and what we also call batch party  in my college but again things didn’t turn up and i was unable to attend that party . However i am happy but a farewell wish is not that bad as according to me its the official way of saying Good Bye !! to our school or college .

Rain,exams and a hot cup of tea

So its exam time once again and this semester its quite tough too 😉 ohh hoo not exams they are fine as usual but the climatic conditions are so weird that i thought i should mention this thing 😉 😛 Our exams started few days back in the last week of December and are about to end . I am in the seventh semester ( lucky me :P) of engineering as my About pages says and yes after one more semester i would be an engineer specifically software engineer.

Coming to the point this weather has been taking my tough examination since last few days. First it was hot and a bit sunny weather, then the year end brought incessant rains that lasted for few days and finally the most common chilly weather in which mercury forgets to rise is back in action.For the first time in my life i have experienced so many different shades of weather within a interval of around a week.

However this timespan reminds me of my school days when i with my sisters used to go for walk and when the wind started flowing she used to say that Bhai dekh exam waali hawa chalana shuru hogayi hai(look the wind that flows during the exam time has started) and we used to gaze the trees and the shrubs all around. We were kids and our mind usually brainstormed us with that weird sensation.It has been quite a long time after that school exams that we  faced were mainly in the month of March but memories are everlasting. We used to drink hot cup of tea and study during our examination in the night when we were busy fighting with the tough mathematical equations of calculus and tough chemical equations.

We both are about to complete our studies and would become working professionals now but old memories are like sweet chocolates.Few days back i was drinking tea and memories of the past reminded me of that time.And left me smiling and lost in the old memories for a while 🙂

Its a brand new year #HappyNewYear

When i am writing this post celebrations for the new year have been started in many parts of the world. Everyone around is ready to welcome the new year wholeheartedly. 2014 has been one of the best year of my life and believe me it has given me a lot of memories. Although some memories were quite weird and sad but maximum for superb …..yes superb 😀

Some of the most memorable events and memories 

1.Campus Placement:-Beginning with the most memorable day of my life the day when i was selected in a reputed company. I was like on top of this world. I came dancing the whole way from the place where results were announced to my house. I with my friends were shouting, dancing, laughing and enjoying that moment the fullest.

2.My Sister’s Marriage:- This is also one of the sweetest memory of my life. My sister got married in 2014 and i haven’t seen her so much happy previously in my whole life. We have a new member in our family and my jiju is so cool 🙂

3.A Company of awesome friends:-Friends that make your life heaven. I have been searching for friends that can stay with me whenever i need them, understand me whenever i feel fixed and  2014 has given me true friends that have stayed with me in all my odd and happy days. We have faced each and every problems and first time in my life i am feeling so relieved 😀

4.My blog(which you are reading): Blogging has been such an interesting thing and 2014 has helped me to start my own blog and devote some time for blogging and interacting with my readers

It has been an amazing journey in my life and 2014 has added more color,more hues and brightness to the canvas of my life. With some weird, sour, tasteless and sad memories the year has provided beautiful memories to me.

It has been raining since morning and i am enjoying this weather very much. Wishing all a very happy new year 2015 🙂 May this year brings lots  of happiness,joy and fun in your life and may god fulfill all your wishes this time. Enjoy your life 😀

Leaving you with a pic i clicked from my terrace ……its raining since morning and i am loving this weather 😀 

Its the wheel of time

So here i am standing at the verge of completing of my bachelor’s degree and from the next year or my next sem i will have to appear for the campus recruitment test conducted by a lot of companies.Its the start of a new phase of my life and i am ready to face it with my full strength. Few days back i was in a conversation with my friend who is studying in a reputed engineering college and is pursuing his graduation in bachelor of engineering in computer science engineering. He was my very close friend in school but as he got selected in a very reputed college he did ignored me and i still remember his words that you are studying in a low standard college who is least reputed.Apart from that he also told me a lot of things which was really sad. But i guess college doesnt matters a lot the things that matter is your knowledge. It was quite annoying for me to hear such things from him. I just gave him a reply that it just depends on time that who will become what in his life.Maybe things can change,but the biggest thing that offended my emotion was that he was my very close friend. Maybe i was wrong to choose him as my friend. The wheel of time is quite a clever thing created by god.Your past doesn’t leaves you it is stucked somewhere in your mind or life and makes a small entry at the right time.When i was not selected in a good college in class 12th i didnt mind it too much. I just thought i should study hard gather as much knowledge so that i can polish my skills very much and i can stand somewhere between them. I dont say that my college is not a good college it is a good college and i just love my friends and my college. But its my third year and i am still not feeling happier or quite satisfied. If you talk about satisfaction i have pretty much explained my mind that i should just feel satisfied but its not working i dont know why ??Lets see what will happen again i am just hoping good to happen in future 😀